A Best Friend like No Other

As the pandemic continues, as the winter continues, as the restrictions on all kinds of gatherings continue, we are feeling lonely. We are feeling disconnected. We’re feeling distant from our friends and our church family.

Not only are we lonely right now, unable to be physically with family, friends, and our church community, in many ways we are also experiencing seasons of rejection. Even if we fully understand and agree with others that we need to keep our distance, most of all of us are FEELING rejection, FEELING like our friends are shrinking back from us, FEELING like others don’t want to be around us.

On top of what we’re experiencing, which is taking its toll on all of us, we’re also tempted to project this onto our Savior. Maybe Jesus also doesn’t want to be around me. Maybe Jesus also rejects me, shrinks back from me, and doesn’t want to be around me. But nothing could be further from the truth! Whether we feel it or not, whether we fully believe it or not, Jesus will never abandon his friends.

In his book Gentle and Lowly (my favorite book I’ve read this year, go buy it and read it) pastor and author Dane Ortlund writes:

“Here is the promise of the gospel and the message of the whole Bible: In Jesus Christ, we are given a friend who will always enjoy rather than refuse our presence. This is a companion whose embrace of us does not strengthen or weaken depending on how clean or unclean, how attractive or revolting, how faithful or fickle, we presently are.”

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Christian, when you think of Jesus do you only think of him as Savior, King, or Lord? He is fully and totally all of those. But he is also your friend. The King who rules the cosmos, the Savior who is fully God, the Lord who rightly should receive all humanity’s allegiance, that Jesus is also your friend.

“This is my command: Love one another as I have loved you. No one has greater love than this: to lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do not call you servants anymore, because a servant doesn’t know what his master is doing. I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything I have heard from my Father. You did not choose me, but I chose you…” -Jesus in John 15:12-16 (CSB)

Saint, you have been chosen by Christ himself. He wanted you. He loves you. He died for you. He has made you his friend. He doesn’t call you servant but he calls you friend. Did you know that? Do you believe that? When you think of Jesus do you only think of him as your Lord? Do you just think of him as your King? Do you only see yourself as his servant? If so, that’s just part of your identity. You are also his FRIEND.

And what kind of friend is Jesus? Is he like my current friends who’re cautious to come near me? Is he like my former “friends” who left me, gossiped about me, ignored me, and abandoned me? Unlike the world around us, Jesus will not abandon us if we mess up, fall apart, or even give up on life. Even when we have uncertainty in every area of our lives, there is one place we can have certainty, one place we can have confident hope, and that is in Christ's love and friendship.

Regardless on how this pandemic plays out and especially for you RIGHT NOW amidst social distancing, isolation, quarantines, and lockdowns, Jesus is a friend like you could never image or dare hope would ever exist. He’s here for you right now. He knows you completely and fully and still choses you. Brother and sister, even at your worst, your sin isn’t too much to keep Jesus away from you. Remember that Jesus was known for being a friend of the broken, the oppressed, the marginalized, the evil, and the scum. His opponents tried to use that against him: “He’s a friend of tax collectors and sinner!” (Matt. 11:19). In case you didn’t know, that accusation backfired on his opponents and even more people flocked to Jesus.

Let this truth move from the screen you’re reading and into not just your head but into your heart. Don’t just know that Jesus befriends you, believe it and feel it. When you feel alone, believe and feel that he’s happily and gloriously there with you. When you feel abandoned, believe and feel that Jesus will never abandon you. When you feel unloved or betrayed, feel and believe that Jesus will never stop loving you nor betray you. Christian, this is who we are. We’re friends with our King and Savior Jesus Christ.

“Christ’s heart for us means that he will be our never-failing friend no matter what friends we do or do not enjoy on earth. He offers us a friendship that gets underneath the pain of our loneliness. While that pain does not go away, its sting is made fully bearable by the far deeper friendship of Jesus. He walks with us through every moment. He knows the pain of being betrayed by a friend, but he will never betray us. He will not even so much as COOLY welcome us. That is not who he is. That is not his heart.” -Dane Ortlund in Gentle and Lowly

SPENCER PETERSON / COMMUNITY LIFE PASTOR

Answering Objections to the Resurrection

This past Sunday in nearly every country and culture across the globe people celebrated an event that seems impossible. Jesus of Nazareth was crucified on a Roman cross on Friday evening and then just a few days later, the tomb that held his body was empty.

For many people this sounds unbelievable. It simply cannot be true. So there must be another explanation. Yet this is what the Bible teaches and is what the Christian Church has believed for 2,000 years. The first resurrection claims written were in the letters of Paul and were written just some 15-20 years after Jesus’ death and even gave names of eye-witnesses who were still alive and could be asked about what they saw and experienced.

Not only does the Bible teach, declare, assume, describe, predict, and explain the resurrection but it even goes so far as to say that Jesus’ resurrection is the foundation of the whole faith.

If Christ has not been raised, your faith is worthless; you are still in your sins. -- 1 Corinthians 15:17 (CSB)

Conventional wisdom, our experiences, and common belief come into conflict with what the Bible teaches. So let’s look at the objections skeptics of the resurrection have had and examine how strong they are.

While many objections have been proposed to Jesus’ resurrection, these four have been the most common. (For additional objections and responses to them, see this Gospel Coalition article). Much more could be said in response to each object and in fact many books have been written on this subject. But for the sake of this blog, I’ll try and keep it short and succinct.

1. The Body was Stolen: Jesus did die and the reason the tomb was empty was because the disciples stole the body and claimed he had raised. This was the explanation given originally by the Jews.

Response: The guards in front of Jesus’ tomb would have all had to fall asleep at the same time or be overthrown by the disciples (and we all know how mighty the twelve were). If this did happen, it would’ve cost the guards their lives. So they were highly motivated to protect the body on the third day, the day Jesus said he would rise from the grave.

Even if the disciples were able to sneak past the soldiers, break the Roman seal on the stone, roll it away, and steal Jesus body, they would also need to somehow make hundreds of people think they seen the triumphant, victorious risen Jesus.

Finally, why would the disciples risk their lives for a lie and get nearly nothing out of it? The disciples didn’t live posh, healthy, comfortable, and wealthy lives. Their claim that Jesus was raised and that he was God cost them everything. They all spent their lives under persecution and serving the poor and marginalized and each one died a martyr’s death (except for John whom they tried to kill by boiling alive in oil).

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2. The Swoon Theory: Jesus did not actually die on the cross but rather just swooned. He passed out on the cross, appeared dead, and was later revived by the cool tomb air.

Response: Author and theologian John Stott responds to this theory by asking if we are supposed to believe “that after the rigours and pains of trial, mockery, flogging, and crucifixion he could survive thirty-six hours in a stone sepulcher with neither warmth nor food nor medical care? That he could then rally sufficiently to perform the superhuman feat of shifting the boulder which secured the mouth of the tomb, and this without disturbing the Roman guard? That then, weak and sickly and hungry, he could appear to the disciples in such a way as to give them the impression that he had vanquished death?”

Also we need to remember that these Roman soldiers were professional executioners. They had performed countless crucifixions and were incredibly good at making criminals suffer and die. And if they took a prisoner down from the cross before they were dead, they would be executed. Not only that but it’s recorded that they also pierced Jesus’s side with a spear to confirm his death and water and blood poured out. If he was still alive before this, the pierced heart would have killed him.


3. A Twin (or look-alike) Died in Jesus’ Place: This objection has been suggested by some Muslim scholars (including a teaching in Quran 4:157). The objection proposes that someone who looked like Jesus (maybe a brother or twin) was the one actually crucified. So people really did see Jesus after the cross because Jesus was never crucified. Or a variation of this could be that Jesus did die on the cross but a look-alike was the one seen after the crucifixion, not Jesus.

Response: There isn’t any evidence that Jesus had a twin, a look alike, or a brother who was confused for him. Jesus’ mother was at Jesus’ crucifixion and wouldn’t have been fooled. Relatedly, it is very unlikely that the Jewish rulers who were pushing to have Jesus executed would have mistakenly crucified the wrong person.

We can’t forget that the scars/wounds from Jesus crucifixion were present on the resurrected Jesus. The disciples (many who were skeptical) touched the risen Christ, including his scars. Additionally this view doesn’t address the empty tomb or the burial clothes left behind.

4. Jesus’ Followers Hallucinated: Jesus did die yet his followers projected their desire for him to be raised from the grave and all hallucinated the supposed sightings of the resurrected Christ.

Response: While at face value this might sound like a good alternative to the supernatural resurrection of Jesus, when looked at closely it fails for many reasons. Hallucinations are not seen by groups of people but rather by individuals. The New Testament describes Jesus as talking to groups of people at the same time, including an instance of more than 500 people. Hallucinations are prone to certain types of people yet so many different types of people claimed to see the risen Jesus (and in many different locations) over 40 days and then all the appearances stopped.

Finally, hallucinations come from a preexisting thought or belief. The way Jesus was raised from the dead was a concept both the Jews and the Greeks would have never thought of. The Jews thought only of a resurrection at the end of time when all would be resurrected and death would cease to exist. William Lane Craig describes this for us. “Jewish belief always concerned a resurrection at the end of the world, not a resurrection in the middle of history…This traditional Jewish concept was the presupposition of Jesus’ own disciples (Mark 9:9-13, John 11:24).” The Greeks thought the physical body (and world) was a prison so the idea of being resurrected in a physical body would be undesirable.

While the resurrection might still seem unfathomable, it did happen. It is the best explanation of the evidence: the empty tomb, the accounts of hundreds of people seeing the risen Jesus, the disciples’ changed lives, and the birth of Christianity.

But in fact Christ has been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. For as by a man came death, by a man has come also the resurrection of the dead. - 1 Corinthians 15:20-21

SPENCER PETERSON/COMMUNITY LIFE PASTOR